Abiola’s Love Class! Outside Children, Half Siblings and Finding Healing

Welcome to Love School. Class is in session! Abiola’s Love School is a weekly empowered Love Lesson, inspirational class and juicy conversation about love, relationships, dating, sex, commitment and self worth. Each assignment will include homework, resources and actionable steps.

Everyone wishes to be with their partner for the entire lifetime. If you wish to do so, then you need to give your marriage the topmost priority.  You need to work towards sustaining a good relationship. I was reading this article about how a couple manages their life to stay together and be happy. You will be surprised to find there are many things you need to follow if you want a successful married life. Listed below are few of them.

Eat together- There are various studies which show that eating a healthy meal together improves the mental well-being of a couple. Follow a balanced diet so that you will be energized the whole day and it will help you in exhibiting a positive attitude in general. You could avoid unnecessary quarrels between each other.

Bond with the spouse’s friends- You need to plan occasional get together with your spouse’s friends so that you could get to know each other well. When you socialize with the friend circle, it enhances the most important facet of both of your lives.

Give some along time for your spouse with their pals- A boy’s night out or a girl’s night out is much needed in a relationship. You should hang out with your respective friends without the spouse occasionally as it will help in boosting the marriage.

Bond with the spouse’s family- You need to blend quite well with your spouse’s siblings and parents. You need to make an effort from your side to be cordial and friendly with the entire family. If you give a hard time to your spouse because of the in-laws then he/she will get angry and it can create a strain on your relationship.

Travel- Monotonous life can take a toll on your marriage. You should plan a vacation at least once a year.  Exploring new places together will bring back the romance in your life.

Let’s move beyond the surface to experience the true love and intimacy we deserve. Are you in? “Mom and Pop were just a couple of kids when they got married. He was eighteen, she was sixteen and I was three.” ~ Billie Holiday