LESSON: ACCEPTING YOURSELF AS A SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE, WORTHY (AND POWERFUL) WOMAN
I Googled “sexual self-esteem” and one of the first listings that came up was a men’s magazine giving guys tips to boost a woman’s “sexual ego.” It is a common error to confuse self-esteem and self-worth with ego. True sexual self-esteem, like any other kind of self esteem, can’t be given to you by anyone else.
Self-esteem plays a very important part of anyone’s life. It is not just about its influence in a career that makes life easy, but also how does it feel with our minds that engage us well in the best possible manner. It can be recognized well because it is felt within. Now, what influence does that have with sex? Let us try to understand.
We always have huge respect for love and respect towards our partner. But, the real question that ponders in our mind is just about how we feel for ourselves. It is really how satisfied and comfortable you feel boosts your self-esteem. This is important in sex to have a long lasting relationship that is very much engaging to a large extent. Being appealing and competent is what that matters out rightly, but it should come from within and then it is interesting and worth it.
This will let you know if you are sexually abused or harassed to any degree by anyone for that matter. This is crucial because we will have to be valued for what we are. It is found that women with low self-esteem have tried to have very unprotected sex with multiple partners to get into a comfortable feeling. This is a clear indication of how important we should feel happy for ourselves. Sexual desire also has to be very casual and not to just let be proven hard. We have to read and understand what makes a sexual life very interesting with good sex. More helpful hints as this will help you build a better personality out of yourself and understand that it is important.
Of course your parental figures and adult caretakers were responsible for helping you to build a strong sense of self-value during your formative years. However, at this point it is all up to you. Thank goodness! That means that how juicy your life is, is solely in your domain.