When we were growing up, commercials told us that “choosy moms” selected a specific kind of peanut butter because they wanted the best for their families. At the same time, us kids who were “picky eaters” were probably a source of stress to our “choosy moms.”… More
Why Another Sad Love Song Might Be OK
When love gets us down, we all have those songs that break out hearts and we try to avoid them…. More
Abiola’s Love Class: How to Be A Sex Goddess! Afrodite 101
Welcome to Love School. Class is in session! Abiola’s Love School is a weekly empowered Love Lesson, inspirational class and juicy conversation about love, relationships, dating, sex, commitment and self worth. Each assignment will include ... More
Single, Dating or Married: How to Turn On Your Juicy, Feminine Love Magnet!
“What an honor and blessing to inhabit the flesh form as a female on this planet at this time.” … More
Lesson 8: The Goddess in Love! Relationships & Divine Feminine Power 101
It was a private “Goddess in Love” group in my apartment. We passed around a rock as a talking stick, meaning whoever had the rock had the floor. A woman confessed that she was “sick and tired of being sick and tired.” Another co-signed. Each told a different version of the superwoman syndrome story: burning the candle at both ends, never feeling like you’re enough, caught up in trying to get “there” and then feeling lonely and like an impostor when achieving success…. More
Why I Didn’t Date Until My Daughter’s First Birthday
I remember it like it was yesterday. One Super Bowl Sunday, I called my long-term boyfriend (and baby-to-be’s father) and asked if we were still attending a friend’s football party. … More
Study Suggests New Dads Feel…Sexy?
Becoming a parent changes a lot for couples, but a new study suggests one of the good changes it brings is dads feeling sexy. … More
Can your spouse be your business partner?
Let me start off by saying that I love, love, love my spouse. But what worked at home failed to work for our business. It was either save our relationship or the business and we chose the first one…. More
Abiola’s Love Class: Break Up Detox! How to Move on When You Can’t Let Go
Welcome to Love School. Class is in session! Abiola’s Love School is a weekly empowered Love Lesson, inspirational class and juicy conversation about love, relationships, dating, sex, commitment and self worth. Each assignment will include homework, resources and actionable steps. Let’s move beyond the surface to experience the true love and intimacy we deserve. Are you in?
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Abiola’s Love Class: How to Stop Sabotaging Your Own Relationships
Welcome to Love School. Class is in session! Abiola’s Love School is a weekly empowered Love Lesson, inspirational class and juicy conversation about love, relationships, dating, sex, commitment and self worth. Each assignment will include homework, resources and actionable steps. Let’s move beyond the surface to experience the true love and intimacy we deserve. Are you in?… More
Abiola’s Love Class: Is He Your Man or Your Son?
At home I was raised to be the perfect people pleasing queen; a good girl, overachiever and an all around nice person. In school I felt as though I had to uphold my race by presenting a different version of African Americans…. More
How Stepdads Can Become Part of the Family
According to the Pew Research Center, 13 percent of adults in the United States have stepchildren, and with the high divorce rate, it’s likely that number will grow. A new study from Brigham Young University has advice for stepfathers who are trying to integrate themselves into their new families…. More
