As a new mother of twin boys, I am still getting used to this new version of my life. … More
Are You Too Picky for Love? Selective Dating & Single Women
When we were growing up, commercials told us that “choosy moms” selected a specific kind of peanut butter because they wanted the best for their families. At the same time, us kids who were “picky eaters” were probably a source of stress to our “choosy moms.”… More
Why Another Sad Love Song Might Be OK
When love gets us down, we all have those songs that break out hearts and we try to avoid them…. More
Abiola’s Love Class: How to Be A Sex Goddess! Afrodite 101
Welcome to Love School. Class is in session! Abiola’s Love School is a weekly empowered Love Lesson, inspirational class and juicy conversation about love, relationships, dating, sex, commitment and self worth. Each assignment will include ... More
Single, Dating or Married: How to Turn On Your Juicy, Feminine Love Magnet!
“What an honor and blessing to inhabit the flesh form as a female on this planet at this time.” … More
Lesson 8: The Goddess in Love! Relationships & Divine Feminine Power 101
It was a private “Goddess in Love” group in my apartment. We passed around a rock as a talking stick, meaning whoever had the rock had the floor. A woman confessed that she was “sick and tired of being sick and tired.” Another co-signed. Each told a different version of the superwoman syndrome story: burning the candle at both ends, never feeling like you’re enough, caught up in trying to get “there” and then feeling lonely and like an impostor when achieving success…. More
Abiola’s Love Class: Break Up Detox! How to Move on When You Can’t Let Go
Welcome to Love School. Class is in session! Abiola’s Love School is a weekly empowered Love Lesson, inspirational class and juicy conversation about love, relationships, dating, sex, commitment and self worth. Each assignment will include homework, resources and actionable steps. Let’s move beyond the surface to experience the true love and intimacy we deserve. Are you in?
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Abiola’s Love Class: How to Stop Sabotaging Your Own Relationships
Welcome to Love School. Class is in session! Abiola’s Love School is a weekly empowered Love Lesson, inspirational class and juicy conversation about love, relationships, dating, sex, commitment and self worth. Each assignment will include homework, resources and actionable steps. Let’s move beyond the surface to experience the true love and intimacy we deserve. Are you in?… More
Abiola’s Love Class: Is He Your Man or Your Son?
At home I was raised to be the perfect people pleasing queen; a good girl, overachiever and an all around nice person. In school I felt as though I had to uphold my race by presenting a different version of African Americans…. More
Spring (Fashion) Forward:16 Chic Steals for Under $60
Spring has definitely sprung with great deals on flirty skirts, lacy looks, cool crew necks, and other trendy styles of the season. See what amazing fashion buys are in bloom after the jump. All incredibly chic and all for under $60. (Time to bust out those credit cards!)… More
Abiola’s Love Class: “I Don’t Need A Man” and Other Love Lies We Tell Ourselves
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ― Rumi… More































